Have you ever worked with someone who was hard to read, hesitant to speak their mind, or would flip-flop every time the wind blew? It’s frustrating, especially if that person is a senior leader with power and influence over your world. One minute they’re saying one thing, the next minute, they’re doing the complete opposite. It leaves you feeling uncertain, and it’s hard to trust their direction.
But what if that leader is you? What if you’re the one who’s unclear, hesitant, or second-guessing yourself? Here’s the hard truth: if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will.
Corporate politics, wanting to be liked, and trying to keep everyone happy—these are all natural, healthy human instincts. We all want to be admired and appreciated. But the reality is, these desires can get in the way of good leadership. People are drawn to leaders who are confident, clear, and consistent. They want someone who knows where they stand and isn’t afraid to speak their truth—even if it's uncomfortable or unpopular.
When you believe in yourself and stay grounded in your values, people can feel it. Your confidence becomes magnetic. They trust you, follow you, and align with your vision—even when the path is tough.
The importance of trust in leadership is clear: Only 21% of U.S. employees strongly agree that they trust the leadership of their organizationAlignment 360 2025. And employees who strongly trust their leaders are four times more likely to be engaged at workAlignment Fundamentals …. Trust isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s essential to effective leadership.
The Power of Personal Alignment
Personal alignment is about leading with integrity—aligning your actions with your values, your words with your intentions, and your decisions with your deeper purpose. When you lead from this place, your leadership becomes clear and powerful. You gain respect because your actions are consistent and rooted in your truth, not in what others expect of you.
Why does this matter? Because leadership without personal alignment doesn’t just make you uncertain—it makes others uncertain too. If you’re always swaying with every new opinion, direction, or external pressure, it undermines your ability to inspire trust. Your influence may get you through the short-term, but over time, people will start to question your decisions, and that erodes your credibility.
But when you're aligned, your leadership becomes clear. People know they can rely on you, even when the going gets tough. Alignment allows you to set a clear course and stick to it, no matter the challenges, and that’s the kind of leadership people rally behind.
The Ripple Effect of Personal Alignment
When you lead from a place of alignment, it creates a ripple effect. Your team feels that clarity and trust. It’s not just about making decisions—it’s about creating a culture where everyone feels safe to speak their mind and act with confidence. When you align with your core values and lead with integrity, you create a ripple effect across your team or organization.
This doesn’t just stop with your team—it spreads. It’s a ripple effect that extends across your organization, making it stronger, more focused, and more effective. When everyone is aligned, your organization functions like a well-oiled machine. And that’s the kind of leadership that creates lasting change.
When Others Don’t Line Up with You
Here’s something important to keep in mind when speaking your mind: when others don’t align with you, it’s okay. You might find they have a valid point, and you genuinely shift your thinking. Or, you might find that it’s time to part ways. The key is to keep listening to yourself and trusting that it’s okay to stay true to who you are. When you lead from alignment, you have the confidence to trust your instincts—whether it’s choosing to grow through a disagreement or recognizing when it’s time to move in a different direction.
Personal Alignment Self-Assessment
Use the following scale to assess how aligned you feel in your leadership. For each statement, rate yourself from 1 to 5, with 1 being "Strongly Disagree" and 5 being "Strongly Agree."
1: Strongly Disagree
2: Disagree
3: Neutral
4: Agree
5: Strongly Agree
1. My work consistently reflects my core values.
2. I consult myself first before making difficult decisions.
3. I freely share my opinions and point of view at work.
4. The tasks I do are connected to my long-term goals and purpose.
5. I feel comfortable being my authentic self at work.
Call to Action
Would you like to see your scores improve? If this assessment has sparked any insights or questions for you, we’d love to help you dive deeper into aligning your leadership with your core values and vision. Feel free to reach out, and let’s explore how we can support your journey toward more authentic, impactful leadership.
Let’s make 2025 the year of alignment—starting with you.
References
Gallup. (2023). Why Trust in Leaders Is Faltering and How to Gain It Back. Retrieved from https://www.gallup.com/workplace/473738/why-trust-leaders-faltering-gain-back.aspx
Gallup. (2017). Develop Leaders and Managers at all Levels. Retrieved from https://www.gallup.com/workplace/216209/develop-managers-leaders.aspx
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